732-963-2299 marvs@sannsmediation.com
  • X
  • RSS
  • X
  • RSS
Sanns Divorce Mediation NJ
  • Home
  • Services
    • Divorce Mediation
    • Post-Judgment Divorce Modification and Mediation
    • Divorce/Family and Child Custody Arbitration
    • Prenuptial Agreements in NJ
    • NJ Post-nuptial Mediation
    • Save Your Marriage Using Marital Mediation
  • Divorce & Mediation Guide
    • NJ Divorce Mediation Guide: What is Mediation?
    • NJ Divorce Mediation Guide: Benefits of Mediation
    • NJ Divorce Mediation Guide: The Process
  • Blog
  • Choose a Mediator
  • Marvin the Mediator
  • Contact Us
Select Page

The Dangers of Filling in the Gaps

by Marvin Schuldiner | Jun 16, 2008 | Divorce Mediation and Law, Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues | 0 comments

Each Friday, I volunteer some of my time to help the Recording for the Blind and Dyslexic.  My role there is a reader; I read the books which are recorded on digital audio for blind and dyslexic people to be able to use primarily college and high school text books. ...

The Cost of Justice in NJ

by Marvin Schuldiner | May 2, 2008 | Arbitration, Divorce Mediation and Law, Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues | 0 comments

The State of New Jersey is currently going through the budget process for the fiscal year that begins in July 2008.  Like many states, NJ is projecting a large budget deficit due to the downturn in the economy.  As a result, all government agencies are being asked to...

The Future of Law Practice

by Marvin Schuldiner | May 1, 2008 | Arbitration, Divorce Mediation and Law, Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues | 0 comments

New Jersey Lawyer recently took a look at where the future of the practice of law was heading.  They surveyed several prominent NJ lawyers to do so.  Among the areas of change noted was the lessening of trials to resolve disputes (currently, only 1.8% of all cases...

Another Reason to Mediate Your Dispute or Divorce

by Marvin Schuldiner | Jan 25, 2008 | Divorce Mediation and Law, Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues, Lawsuits | 0 comments

This week, a committee of the New Jersey Supreme Court issued a report recommending that the court’s records be made accessible to the public through the internet. The report’s executive summary reads in part: In drafting the proposed rule, the Committee...

The Skills of Negotiating

by Marvin Schuldiner | Mar 29, 2007 | Divorce Mediation and Law, Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues | 0 comments

Mediation at its core is about negotiating an agreement with the help of the mediator.  While the mediator is (or should be) an expert at negotiating, it is helpful for each of the parties to a mediation to understand basic negotiating skills. I generally do not talk...

Eldercare Mediation

by Marvin Schuldiner | Feb 24, 2007 | Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues | 0 comments

It is rare to see mediation be mentioned on the evening news, let alone have a feature article. You can watch this CBS Evening News article about eldercare mediation here. The article talks about a family whose parents can no longer take care of themselves due to...
Next Entries »

Mediation Quick Facts:

  • A mediated divorce often costs less than 1/3rd of a litigated divorce
  • Mediation can finalize a divorce in much less time than litigation -- months versus years
  • You lose none of your rights by mediating
  • Mediation is confidential
  • Make decisions about your future for yourself
  • Parties are more satisfied with terms they agree to in mediation than terms imposed by a court
  • Agreements obtained through mediation are far less likely to end up back in court
  • Mediation is a forward-looking process (where do you go from here)
  • Mediation can be used to resolve many types of disputes, including the dissolutions of gay and lesbian (same-sex) relationships, civil unions, domestic partnerships and commercial and community disputes
  • Mediation allows you to get on with your life more quickly

Divorce Resources

  • Fees and Payments
  • Helpful Articles on Divorce
  • Books of Interest
  • NJ Divorce Laws
  • Parenting Rules for Divorced Parents
  • Lawyer’s Role in Mediation
  • Telling Your Children
  • Alimony
  • Child Support
  • Retirement Funds
  • Social Security
  • Divorce and Taxes
  • FAQs
  • Divorce/Family and Child Custody Arbitration
  • Privacy Policy

Recent Blog Posts

  • Let your words pass through three gates…
  • Mediation and ADR Prevalent in Divorce
  • Matrimonial Trials Resume in Passaic, Somerset, Hunterdon and Warren Counties
  • Religious Upbringing of Children in Divorce
  • NJ Supreme Court Clarifies Cohabitation and Alimony Termination
  • ChatGPT is Not Your Lawyer
  • Are Divorces in Arranged Marriages Different?
  • What is a Get in a Jewish Divorce?
  • Divorce, Houses and Higher Interest Rates
  • No Court Appearance for NJ Divorces*

Blog Categories

  • Arbitration
  • Conflict Quote
  • Divorce Mediation and Law
  • Elder Mediation and Elder Law and Issues
  • General
  • Lawsuits
  • Off Beat
  • Uncategorized

Blog Archives

Office Locations

Most mediations are held via Zoom from the comfort of your home. Available in-person locations include:

  • East Brunswick, NJ*
  • Montgomery/Princeton, NJ*
  • Voorhees, NJ*

  • Bridgewater, NJ
  • Cranford, NJ
  • Freehold, NJ
  • Hackensack, NJ
  • Hoboken/Jersey City, NJ
  • Mahwah, NJ
  • Meadowlands (E. Rutherford), NJ
  • Morristown, NJ
  • Newark, NJ
  • New York, NY
  • Parsippany, NJ
  • Philadelphia, PA
  • Princeton, NJ
  • Red Bank, NJ
  • Short Hills, NJ
  • Woodbridge, NJ

* Evening and Sunday hours available

Contact Sanns Mediation

Marvin Schuldiner, Principal

PO Box 272
Franklin Park, NJ 08823

Office: 732-963-2299
Fax: 732-276-1977

Contact Form

  • Twitter
  • RSS

Copyright 2004 - 2025, Sanns, LLC. All rights reserved. The information listed on this website is for NJ divorce mediation informational purposes only and is not meant to replace the advice of your chosen legal professional. Sanns Divorce Mediation serves the New Jersey Counties of: Bergen, Burlington, Camden, Essex, Gloucester, Hudson, Hunterdon, Mercer, Middlesex, Monmouth, Morris, Passaic, and Somerset.


Privacy Policy