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KY Court Orders Divorcing Couple into Counseling

by Marvin Schuldiner | Sep 9, 2021 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

When couples ponder divorcing, it is not done lightly. Usually, they try marital counseling to save the marriage prior to seeking a divorce. A judge in Kentucky has completely turned this on its head and has misread the situation. The ABA Journal reports that Bullitt...

Co-Parenting Calendar

by Marvin Schuldiner | Apr 29, 2021 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

Children like stability and routine. The younger the child, the more they need stability and routine. Divorce (or never having been together in the first place) doesn’t help with a child’s stability. That does not mean you can’t make things easier...

Mayim Bialik on Co-Parenting After Divorce

by Marvin Schuldiner | Jan 26, 2018 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

If you’re a viewer of Big Bang Theory or perhaps you used to watch Blossom, you know who actress Mayim Bialik is.  In this very candid vlog video, she discusses one aspect of her private divorce — how she and her ex-husband co-parent their two children. ...
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Custody and Relocation of One Parent

by Marvin Schuldiner | Dec 4, 2017 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

[Updated on 12/4/2017 for the NJ Supreme Court’s Decision] Relocation of a child with a custodial parent is one of the most challenging elements of a divorce (or post-judgment action in a divorce).  If the noncustodial parent objects to the relocation (or...

NJ Court Opines on Children Overnights During the School Week

by Marvin Schuldiner | Feb 16, 2017 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

One of the more challenging issues in a divorce is developing a parenting plan that involves non-custodial parent access on school nights.  For some children, it can be disruptive to schoolwork and performance.  For other children, it is inconsequential.  In the...

NJ Court Sets Guidelines for Parental Conduct at Kid’s Sporting Events

by Marvin Schuldiner | Feb 13, 2017 | Divorce Mediation and Law, Lawsuits | 0 comments

In September 2016, an NJ trial court opined (in an unpublished opinion) on proper parental conduct at the sporting events of their children.  In the case of D.W. v. M.W. (FV-15-1025-16, Ocean County — a domestic violence case), the estranged wife asked for an...

Want to Change Grandparent Visitation?

by Marvin Schuldiner | Dec 7, 2016 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

Yesterday, the NJ Appellate Division published the case of Donna Slawinski v. Mary E. Nicholas.  Slawinski is the parental grandmother of “Lilly” (a pseudonym) and Nicholas is Lilly’s mother who apparently has sole custody.  When Lilly’s...

Divorce and Children

by Marvin Schuldiner | Dec 10, 2015 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

Sometimes children are wiser than their parents.

New Year's Resolutions for Divorced Parents

by Marvin Schuldiner | Jan 2, 2014 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 0 comments

The Huffington Post has a nice article on New Year’s resolutions for divorced parents.  Some are obvious, but not everyone may be thinking about these things. Happy New Year to all my clients and readers!  

NJ Supreme Court Allows Arbitration for Parenting Arrangements…with some Caveats

by Marvin Schuldiner | Jul 14, 2009 | Divorce Mediation and Law | 1 comment

Can a couple use arbitration to divorce?  Yes, but when it comes to parenting, other rules than usual apply. Arbitration is the use of a private judge (the arbitrator) to determine the outcome of a dispute.  It is optional for the parties.  Parties usually choose to...

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